+DEV+ Rebuke

Date: May 26, 2009 10:42 PM

Topic: +DEV+     Rebuke

Rebuke

Scripture Focus: Luke 10:38-42

“Better is open rebuke than hidden love. Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses” (Proverbs 27:5-6).

Martin Luther wrote, “I had rather that true and faithful teachers should rebuke and condemn me, and reprove my ways, than that hypocrites should flatter me and applaud me as a saint.”

Not many of us have Luther’s attitude toward rebukes, but often they are needed to help us grow.

Jesus was not afraid to rebuke people. While Mary sat listening to Jesus, Martha prepared dinner. Though she was doing something worthwhile, she did it with the wrong attitude. She fretted and complained about having to do it alone. Instead of reproving Mary for not helping, Jesus rebuked Martha for her worry. 

Martha did not let the rebuke break her relationship with Jesus. In fact, it strengthened that relationship. She sent for Him when her brother Lazarus was sick, and Jesus often visited her home.

It is difficult to point out wrong actions and attitudes to our friends, but it is necessary for relationships to develop depth. It is also necessary to do so with the right attitude and in love. 

Insight: Do you need to rebuke a friend? Ask for God‚s help to do so in love.